Are you possibly guilty of "one-note" sex? Here's a rather explicit explanation of the phenomenon and why it discourages second dates:
"This is probably going to sound really gay, but the sunset is GORGEOUS right now and I love making out with dudes."
"Come with me. Are you ready to explore to make it real?"
—the sizzling hot and hairy Swede Eric Berglund of the band ceo, in his song "Come With Me" from the album White Magic.
A kinky buddy shares a special bareback sex ritual to experience with a new and very passionate boyfriend:
Gather together three shot glasses and a clean oil-paint brush or Q-tip. Have your man piss into one, spit into the second, and ejaculate into the third. (You could suck him to the point of no return and then aim his cock into the shot glass to catch the load.) He then uses these "inks" to sign his initials three times in three places on your body ("thrice thrice," in sex magick terminology). He signs his initials in spit, then in piss, and then in cum on your anus. He signs his initials in spit, piss, and cum on your cockhead. He signs his initials in spit, piss, and cum on your tongue. You blend the final triple signature with a deep kiss, then you drink the remaining piss as he fingers the remaining cum into your ass and then rubs the remaining spit onto your cock in preparation for taking your newly restored virginity and possessing you bodily as well as spiritually.
I do believe in homosexual superiority; [the] world would be better place if more people slept with own gender.
—Alexander Bard, philosopher and founder of the bands Army of Lovers, Vacuum, Bodies without Organs, Gravitonas, and others