tags: It Takes a Man
We hear a lot about setting "realistic goals" (to fuck a little more, to have a little more time for private masturbation, to travel to exotic nude resorts or gay pride festivals, to try one new fetish outside of one's comfort zone). But do not make your sexual goals for the year too easy. That will not arouse the proper spirit of adventure. A man wants to tackle something difficult. Always raise your sexual goals after they have been reached—each year's goals should be a little higher. As your erotic experience grows, you'll be able to accomplish more. Make your goals grow with your sex life, as you come closer and closer to experiencing unconditional happiness. On the other hand, don't try to do everything in one year. Leave something for the future—all of it cannot be done at once (though it can be wildly fun to learn that for yourself).
The greatest secret to fulfilling sexual goals is to envision them explicitly, write them down, and place them prominently in front of you, perhaps on a mirror or a refrigerator door, where you can look at them over and over again until they become a part of you. Be committed, and determine what actions are necessary to turn your goals into realities without breaking any local laws.
If you experience any trouble focusing your sexual goals into a specific list, brainstorm with gay friends or acquaintances. Ask them: "If there were three critical sexual experiences I should pursue this year, what would they be?"
If we do not set sexual goals and live each day to reach those goals, we'll reach old age and look back only to see that we've attained but a small part of our full sexual potential.
tags: It Takes a Man
The idea behind the visual below is simple: while technology is great, let's not allow a virtual "like" or "heart" or "thumb up" of a hot guy to substitute for showing affection one-on-one. Clicking a "thumb up" must not replace actually sticking your thumb up a man's hole. Clicking a "heart" icon must not replace laying a hand on a man's bare chest and feeling his heartbeat. There's no more meaningful way to show appreciation for a man than to ejaculate all over him. By all means, click away on the internet as you will, but back up that virtual love with flesh and fluids.
yes. People are set in their ways -- you know from your own experiences that most everybody operates out of habit and routine -- and that's your opening for making a real difference by taking your own comfort zone and expanding its horizons. Don't be daunted by the fact that the nation of Japan holds every record for jerking off due to the fact that Japanese men are perpetually horny compulsive masturbators. The solution is simple: make every single thing you do a sex act, so as to blow all other statistics out of the water. For example:
At the bar:
If you're actually not a drinker, all the better because you can order a "virgin" (non-alcoholic) version of a drink and then take its virginity as you perform orally upon it. Remember that your brain is your biggest sex organ, so things are only as nasty as you think them. If you do imbibe alcohol, be sure to order only mixed drinks with the sexiest names, like "Screaming Orgasm," "Wallbanger," "Sex on the Beach," "Red-Headed Slut," "Full Monty," or "Ménage à Trois." Always stealthy touch yourself while taking each sip. When you finish, a satisfied exclamation of "Fuck!" is appropriate.
While in the toilet:
When you're doing something as ordinary as taking a piss, mutter to the toilet, "Guzzle that piss, you fucking toilet. You like that, don't you?" Stroke your shaft a bit while you do it. And voila, you've transformed a mundane act of relieving yourself into kinky men's room action.
If you develop a taste for lollipops, your every go at the sucker is a practice session for oral sex. Take your lollipops with you to enjoy them in public and remind everyone around you about cocksucking. For the health conscious, there are organic and sugar-free suckers on the market, but we follow the philosophy of John Waters (known as "The People's Pervert"): feel guilty about it and it'll be that much hotter.
While washing hands:
As you squirt out some pearly hand soap from a dispenser, mutter, "Shoot that load."
Sleep snuggled against one of those great big body pillows so as to foster wet dreams.
During alone time:
When you can't touch yourself:
Just because you can't touch yourself in certain public situations doesn't mean that you can't be wearing a vibrating butt plug. They come in all sizes, and many have an easy to insert tip, like this silicone one.
Every sex act that you incorporate into your daily life affects the world statistics. When you perform sex acts by the hour, by the day, by the week ... you start making a real difference. Even just one person can profoundly alter the erotic landscape, and that one person can be you, starting this very moment. Is that cock out? Let's do this -- together.
tags: It Takes a Man
Consider this: just one word distinguishes gay men from straight men. Straight men classically say this about those they desire: "Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em." But gays can live with 'em and can live without 'em." Truly, gay men can — and do!