Dear Bearded Confidant,

My lover is the macho type... he always wants me on bottom, which is fine by me. My question: Is anal sex physically damaging over the years?

Dear Wide Receiver,

There are those who would say that it takes a macho man to fuck someone's brains out, and that it takes an even more macho man to be on the receiving end of that fuck frenzy!  If your man gets a little crazy when his balls are about to burst with hot jizz, it's no wonder you're worried about the health and safety of your ass.  But as long as you don't feel pain when you get fucked, you should be fine.  Anal sex should never be painful, and if you do it right (with enough lube, relaxation, and communication) then you can safely take on a cock of any size.  See my archives for more detailed tips on making anal fucking safe and fun.