“How to Have an Anal Orgasm”
Dear Bearded Confidant,
Thanks for the great advice you offer on your site. It's thorough, frank, and well-informed. Could you please enlighten me a bit on anal orgasms? When I first heard the term, I thought it meant ejaculating just from getting fucked. I've come to understand, however, that some men experience orgasmic contractions (or something) in their rectum, independent of ejaculation. Could you tell me what it's all about ... and, of course, about the likelihood of experiencing one myself?
usually happen at the same time. Have you ever jerked off and shot your wad but didn't feel euphoric? A man can ejaculate and not experience the pleasurable sensations of orgasm. Likewise, a man can experience an orgasm without pumping any semen, and even without having an erection. This often happens during anal sex. Your prostate, the base of your cock, and your anal sphincter get stimulated by the man butt-fucking you. This stimulation may bring you to experience an orgasm and/or ejaculation. Many men lose their erections while their asses are getting pounded, yet they still experience an orgasm due to the inner stimulation. The feelings or euphoria and orgasmic contractions are often more intense during anal sex because of how you are being stimulated. When your prostate and anal sphincter contract, they are doing so against that hard cock shoved inside you, so the feeling is more intense. Additionally, the pleasurable feelings of the anal orgasm tend to shoot up the base of your spine to your head.
You can have this experience without getting butt-fucked by masturbating using a technique perfected in Asia. Instead of working the sensitive tip of your cock with your hand, stroke only the base of your cock and use your other hand to rub between your balls and anus. When you cum, your sexual energy will flow in the other direction, shooting up your spine instead of out the tip of your cock. You'll most likely still ejaculate in the usual way, but the feelings of orgasm will travel through your body differently.