Dear Bearded Confidant,

My boyfriend and I have intercourse regularly and since we are monogamous, we don't use a condom.  I am always on the bottom and achieve orgasm 99% of the time without either one of us touching my penis. Is this unusual?  I have never been with anyone else, but my lover has and says he has never experienced this before.  Is it the stimulation or the fact that I can feel him come inside me?

Dear Michael,

It's incredibly sexy to shoot off just from feeling your man's cock inside you, and when you do your man knows that he has fucked you well. A lot of guys are able to cum just from being fucked, without touching their own cocks at all.  It all depends upon how good a lover your man is and how turned on you are.  When a man's cock is sliding in and out of you, it is massaging your prostate.  It is also stimulating the base of your cock (the part of your cock that curves down past your balls and toward your anus).  So your sex organs are getting stimulated from the inside instead of the outside.  Since you are monogamous and don't use condoms, you are also feeling your man's hot cum shoot out of his cock. The feeling of that scalding wetness on the prostate is enough to bring many men past the point of no return.  The nice thing about being able to cum without touching your own cock is that you can relax into the lovemaking and give your partner your full attention, which in turn means that your own pleasure will increase as he responds to your feedback!